Thomas James Vasta

Thomas J. Vasta, “Tom”, died peacefully on May 6, 2026 at Christian Health Care Centre in

Lynden, WA at the age of 74 after a 40-year battle with Multiple Sclerosis.

 

A native of New Brunswick, NJ, Tom was a long-time resident of Vermont where he worked for

the State as a Database Administrator. In 2000, he and wife, Donna, bought a 7-acre rural

property just north of the capital, Montpelier, where they spent the next 15 years renovating and landscaping their

dream home with painstaking attention to detail. There was nothing Tom loved more than stacking wood, building

fires, tooling around on his ATV, mowing the 2-acre lawn and manicuring the pond and tree line with his little 14”

chainsaw. During this time, he was also chief ear-scratcher to our beautiful family of cats who never failed to bring

a smile to his face. Always fascinated by the Pacific Northwest and seeking a kinder climate in retirement, they

made the move to Point Roberts, WA in 2015 where they rented a beautiful beach-front home close to the marina

for several years.

 

The move was perfect as Tom loved the water. He was an avid sailor, first taking up the sport in

1987. He chartered and captained multiple sailboat cruises in Florida, the Virgin Islands and

Bermuda throughout the 1990s, but his passion remained his own beloved 28’ Pearson, Tom

Foolery, which he moored on Lake Champlain in Mallett’s Bay, VT. As the name implies, there

were many good times onboard with family and friends including “Gilligan” and the Tuesday

night crew over the next decade and a half.

 

Tom was a true history buff who was fascinated by naval history and the Civil War period in

particular, reading extensively in his earlier years, then watching endless documentaries and

films on these and other topics. He loved chess — often playing both sides himself, no doubt

ensuring the win — cribbage, photography, jigsaw puzzles, old movies, Yankees baseball,

Italian food, cheesecake and chocolate ice cream.

 

Through it all, Tom never let his illness define his life. He accepted whatever came his way with

grace and fortitude. He lived in the present moment, never complaining, never wishing for a

different life and remaining happy wherever he was and at whatever he was doing.

 

Tom is survived by his wife and partner of 35 years Donna Prudhomme, daughter Perry Vasta,

sister Sally Kasulanis, brother Rick Vasta (Kim), eight nieces and nephews and their partners,

and eight great-nieces and great-nephews in Canada, NJ and Virginia. He is pre-deceased by

his mother Dolly Robinson Vasta, father Joe Vasta and brother Steven Vasta.

 

Tom lived a simple, rich and full life with no regrets. He will be sadly missed by family and

friends, but remembered always.

 

Special thanks to the exceptional nurses and caregivers at Christian Health Care Center for the

kindness, support and outstanding care they provided during Tom’s final seven weeks and to

Isobel Brophy and Kristy Steinberger of Point Roberts for their compassion and ongoing in-

home care during our time on Cliff Road.